I've decided to cry my last cry.
There are 2 things that y'all should know about Jeremiah if you don't already. #1, he doesn't like to spend money. #2, he doesn't like to spend money unnecessarily. Having said that, this is the very reason why I was crying so hard when all of this happened. I knew deep down that he wasn't going to fix my van. Having said that, we have had many discussions regarding the damage that I caused to the Mommymobile.
His first and only option for me is to leave the van as it is. It drives straight, it doesn't look that bad, and we have higher priorities than making my van look "pretty". He also believes that if we ride it out, someone is only going to side swipe us and then they can pay for the repairs.
Obviously, I had to make a counteroffer. I asked Mr. Man what amount would the repairs have to come in at in order to repair the van. He said $500. I'm thinking "SWEET!" All I have to do is find someone to repair the van for $500 or less. I was all kind of excited! I drove my happy little self to Service King and told my "go to guy" that the estimate had to come in at $500. Guess how much the van is going to cost? Wait for it. Wait for it. $1500. I was quickly deflated :o(
I cried all the way home. At least I could see the road this time. On my way home I started thinking. Maybe Jeremiah is right. At least I have reliable transportation AND it drives straight AND maybe I should leave well enough alone. He has made it very clear that if something else happens, which might be worse than the current damage, he's not paying for another deductible.
Then he says this "I tell you what. If you can live with that door for another year, I'll buy you a new van before the end of the first quarter of 2013." While most wives would jump on the opportunity to get a new car, I don't want a new car. I love my van and I just want it fixed.
As much as it sickens me, I think I'm going to hold out for a new van. And, it better be just as nice as my current one!!! Jeremiah, you do not have to repair my van. There, I've officially put it in writing :o(